Giving Back To Others...

Prior to successfully landing a job, these past nine months I was on a different journey as well. I had gotten so lazy, and was enjoying too much of the wrong kinds of food. Back in September 2009, I decided to join Weight Watchers. Six weeks later I became unemployed. I made a promise to myself that I would not let unemployment get me down. I started getting on the treadmill 3 to 4 days a week. I now had the time to devote to exercising and eating the right kinds of foods.

After 10 months of Weight Watchers, I am officially a lifetime member. With this new status, I am going to be a part of the Weight Watchers family. I have an interview on Thursday evening to be a receptionist/leader. Even though I am embarking on a new career, I know it's my turn to give back to others. I lost 20 pounds and intend to never gain it back. What better way to stay on track! My blog may now turn into a Weight Management blog to inspire others to get healthy, just like I did and to turn a negative situation into something positive.

So, if you are motivated, dedicated and quest for the best, then don’t limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. Remember, What you believe,  you can achieve!

Mr. Toad's Wild Ride

It's been a week since my last blog and I want to go back an close the book on the six job opportunities that I mentioned.

Starting with number six, I met with a staffing agency who, after interviewing me realized the position they had for me I was overqualified for. The salary is what someone who is just starting out would expect. Book closed.

Number 5 -- I never did get a chance to connect with the referral just because there was so much other activity going on. Book closed.

Opportunity number 4. I was invited to interview for this position last Friday and it went quite well. The department does research for the heath care industry. This book is still open.

The third one, I filled out the preliminary questions an then promptly received the typical generic thanks but no thanks e-mail. Book closed.

The second opportunity was an HR role with a well established Health Care company. I provided my pre-screen questions to them and apparently it went into the black hole. The typical no response syndrome. In my opinion, book closed.

The first one: This was a 4-month contract position and I interviewed last Thursday afternoon. On Friday evening I received a voice message saying that the company I interviewed with wants to know when I can start. I connected with the staffing agency late on Monday evening around 5:15 p.m. She told me the Solar Company I interviewed with wants me to start on Wednesday. Great news don't you think? However, she then proceeds to tell me that the rate was being reduced. Mind you, it was being reduced by ONE DOLLAR an hour. I told her that I was not happy with that especially since the commute was over an hour one way!. Her response was, aren't you glad you have a job! Now really, yes I am glad, but come on.

Needless to say, her rate is definitely better than unemployment, even if it was significantly less than my previous position.

Here is where the adventure begins. Literally 30 minutes later I received a phone call from a hiring manager for a position I interviewed with back in April and he is offering me a job. The salary is 20K a year MORE than the position at the solar company, it's a full time regular position and the commute is 7 minutes, yes, SEVEN minutes from my house. What a stroke of luck, that's for sure.

Now I was tasked with telling the staffing agency that I would not be accepting the position after all. And let me tell you, she was not pleased. She told me that I had already accepted the position and that I am scheduled to start on Wednesday. I told her that you never know when opportunity is going to knock. I said it was an offer that I just couldn't refuse. She continued to tell me that I was compromising my relationship with her staffing agency as well as with the Solar company. Book slammed shut.

The company that I will be working for is a Professional Service company that does business with utilities.  My first assignment is with my former employer.  How ironic is that.  I  will be located in that same building I left nine months ago.

My time as a job seeker certainly felt like Mr. Toad's journey to nowhere in particular.



I want to thank all of those who provided me with comfort and advice during this time.  Thank you to all the members on my job search work who were an inspiration and gave me the confidence to persevere.  I couldn't have done it without you.  Special thanks to a former co-worker who stood by my side and told me to have faith.  To a childhood friend, Cathy, who made me realize that help comes from unexpected places.  To my children who told me that there was something better waiting for me.  And last but not least to my husband who has been there through thick and thin.  I love you with all my heart and soul.

So now I start my new journey and this time I know where I am going.

When It Rains, It Pours

It is time for me to take a deep breath.  I have found out that it is imperative to ensure that you do not have all your eggs in one basket.  So as of this moment, I have six, yes, six pending opportunities.  I must now take a deep breath because this means a lot of preparation is needed on my part.  All I need is one successful interview and I will be a happy camper and then some.

I thought I would just write a little bit about each pending opportunity, so if anyone has advice they would like to send my way, I will definitely accept it.

The first opportunity is a 4-month contract through a staffing agency.  Yes, I know, yesterday I was a skeptic, and today, I am the optimist I have claimed that I am.  The interview is Thursday, August 5 at 3:00 p.m. with two managers and one peer.  Root for me, please!

The second opportunity is a regular assignment in Human Resources with a well established company.  I am at the preliminary stage where I must answer 12 pre-screen questions and return it to the HR recruiter by COB on Thursday, August 5.

The third opportunity is an EA role through a staffing agency.  I answered a few preliminary questions already and am awaiting next steps.

The fourth one is definitely interesting.  If my husband was telling this story I would tell him that I didn't believe it and that it was just another "fish" story.  Anyway, I applied on-line for a Sr Admin role then went to LinkedIn and reached out to a current employee for assistance.  They responded by telling me that it is their position that is being filled.  Out of all the people on LinkedIn, I pick the one person who is vacating  the job for another role within the same company.  As a dear friend of mine said, "That is called serendipity."  By the way, if you never saw the movie Serendipity, you should.  It is excellent and I am a sucker for a great love story.

The fifth opportunity is from a former LHH client for an EA role.  I need to decide if it's a good fit and then get the referral.

The last one is a temp to perm with yet another staffing agency.  I am meeting with the recruiter tomorrow morning.

You know I believe there is a moral to this story.  Give staffing agencies a chance.  You just might find the right bean in the bag. (Smile Joe).

My take

I was sitting here today thinking about some positions that I had applied for.  I told myself a while back that I would only apply to companies directly, avoiding the middle man.  However, when desperation sets in, I look at a job posting that I think it sounds great.  Then I notice it's with a staffing agency and say to myself, what harm can it cause?  Then after I have applied and I come to my senses, I "google" that staffing agency with the word "scam" after it.  Lo and behold, hundreds of disgruntled people complaining about these agencies.

Here is what I discovered.

A lot of you will not know that recruitment is sales driven, where YOUR resume is just a tool to be used to fill their databases. I can list all the agencies to stay away from, but that would take up a lot of time so I’ll just say stay away from all of them. There are a few amazing ones, but for every good story to be told there are at least 10 bad ones. It's sad but true...


So what am I getting at?  My gripe is that recruitment is run a bit like car sales. Most consultants no nothing of the industry they are recruiting for. Less than 100% of the agencies you will deal with all have sales people dealing with your application.

They really don’t care if you get a job or not. If you do that's great, but they're more interested in that financial threshold they need per month so they can earn commission. You're just a number on the books, you're a meal ticket if you like!

Here is a bit of free advice. Don’t ever list your references on any application.  This is used (or rather misused) as a contact into YOUR business, and they will call them. Only after you interviewed with a potential employer should you need to provide reference information.
Job boards like “Careerbuilder” are looked at by millions of potential employers apparently (yeah right!).  Rather, it’s looked at by millions of staffing agencies trying to find companies to call so they can get vacancies to chase. They're just sharks on a feeding frenzy.

There, I feel better now.

Desperado

Today this is how I have been feeling. Nothing else to write.

Carry on ...

Enough already! I had my little break at Lake Tahoe and it was absolutely fabulous. My dad got VIP tickets to the Elton John Concert for me and my husband. This included at pre-show cocktail and food party. I am not much of a gambler, but still ended up coming home with extra money in my pocket.

Enough said. Now down to the nitty gritty. Before I left for Tahoe, I had a two phone interviews for two very different positions. It has been one week since the first phone interview and I have not heard anything. And we know that in the case of job seeking, no news is bad news. It actully gets worse from here. I had a face to face interview yesterday with the County. Eight questions with a panel of 5 people. It lasted 20 minutes. Talk about the deer in the headlights look. Well that was me, when they asked several questions that I could not articulate an anwer for. So I definitely fumbled that. I need help with interviewing. I am sure my resume is okay because I am getting phone screens, but not any interviews or job offers. Not even with my former employer.




So if anyone wants to assist me in becoming a better interviewer I could use all the help I can get.

Carry on.....

A short repreive....

I have been so exhausted since my last post because I have had two phone interviews with two different companies for two very different positions.  I find phone interviews to be utterly exhausting.  Lots of preparation for a 20 - 30 minute conversation, of me trying to sell my skills to someone who knows next to nothing about me, except what was written in a resume.  In the meantime, I am also preparing for a face-to-face interview for a government job on 7/28.  I am not sure if they interview their candidates any different than the private sector.  I know I had to take a written exam and pass in the top ten to make it to the oral.  There were 92 applicants for one position.  They invited 34 to take the exam and 29 people showed up for one position.  It is all so exhausting.

I am going to take a short break.  I am heading out to Lake Tahoe with my husband and my mom and dad.  A short getaway is exactly what I need right now and Lake Tahoe is so beautiful.

Peace out!

Confidence Achieved!

Yesterday felt like "Ground Hog Day" all day.  My husband and I put a little humor into an otherwise series of unfortunate events.  In the end we did manage to get the boys off to Alaska, albeit rather slowly. And, best of all, I managed to buy a pair of shoes that I had been trying to get in my size for weeks.  And you all know women and their shoes!!!

Tonight I am preparing for my phone interview that I have scheduled for Thursday morning.  I feel confident that I am better prepared for this phone interview than for any other one I have had in the past.  Special thanks to all my LinkedIn connections  (and Andy too) who worked with me to ensure my answers were positive and had a smooth flow.

I am learning alot about how to best answer questions, especially ones that require me to say "no".  I have learned how to put a positive spin to those types of questions.

I did some research on the Internet, asked for advice and feel strong!  Also, since I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket, I do have a face to face interview scheduled for 7/28 with the county.

So best wishes to me and to anyone else who has the dreaded phone interview scheduled in the near future.

You learn something new everyday....

I have recently become a huge fan of LinkedIn.  I started using LinkedIn as a means to an end.  I have since realized that LinkedIn is an enormous resource to both the working professional and those who have found themselves in the job seeking mode, like myself.

Today, I connected with an individual who has a wealth of information and is willing to go the extra mile to assist those who seek his advice.  I am still preparing for my phone interview that is scheduled for Thursday morning.  I felt that I was lacking the confidence I needed for this interview, for any interview for that matter.

I was reinforced today that I "rock" at what I do and I can improve efficiency at any organization.  I have to exude that in my tone when I speak, especially over the phone.  I realized too, that I need to do more research, dig deeper, don't give up.  There is information to be found, you just need to be diligent and persistent.  If you think about it, with all this technology, we need to use it to our advantage.  Try to find out something personal about the hiring manager and use it to your advantage.  Reach out to others and they will reach out to you.  But beware of the "axels" that are out there.

Keep on truckin.....

Phone Interview Success Part 2

I am continuing my blog regarding phone interview success.  I am preparing for one that I have next week.  I have had 5 phone interviews and none of them have led to a  face-to-face. I am thrilled that I made it past phase one, the cover letter and resume submission. Now it’s time for the phone interview. 

Use this opportunity to shine and earn that face-face time with the employer.

 

Avoid these simple (and common) phone interview faux pas:

 

• Do not hesitate or use excessive slang. Uh, um, and like are horrible.  It is better to pause for a moment to collect thoughts than it is to explain that you were the, uh, like, uh head, uh analyst . Practice answering potential questions with a friend or family member to help weed out these unnecessary (and unprofessional) words. I get nervous and I know I pause or hesitate (ugh!, I hate when that happens!)
• Do not reply in all yes’s and no’s. Answer with some personal experiences that are relevant to the job in question. Yes/no answers do not help sell your personal brand to the interviewer.  If there is a need to say "No", try adding, however, and then support how you can still provide them the service.
• Do not lose focus. Remember this is an interview, not an historical biography. Keep your answers short and to the point. Make sure you are in an area with limited distractions and both people can hear each other clearly. 
• Do not volunteer information. This is supposed to be a preliminary interview, so there’s no need to commit to a salary requirement at this point. The salary the company is prepared to offer may be higher than what was expected, or, likewise, your requirements may be a bit more than they can afford.
•  Do not just roll out of bed. Since the caller cannot see you, it is tempting to appear disheveled. Getting up early, eating a good breakfast, showering, and dressing (does not have to be business attire) will relieve stress and make you more prepared and alert. 
• Do not respond in a monotone voice . Show the interviewer that you are excited about the position with specific references to what is fascinating about the company. The energy and excitement will be clear in your voice. Have an upbeat, positive attitude.
• Do not wing it. Prepare ahead of time with some traditional questions and have your resume and the job description handy as well as any additional information about the company. Have a list of your attributes with situational examples that would be considered important for this job. Write down important questions that you have for the interviewer beforehand.
• Do not have a hurried interview. While one would ideally be in a quiet setting with no other pressing engagements when the potential employer phones, sometimes it’s just not possible. Politely ask if it would be alright for you to call him or her back later and suggest a time (the sooner, the better). 
• Do not forget to thank the interviewer. After working diligently to answer questions, showing passion for the company and job offered, and standing up and smiling at someone who cannot even see your face, do not blow the interview in the last five minutes. Be certain to leave a positive final impression. Thank the caller and state that you are eagerly looking forward to the opportunity to discuss the position with him or her further face-face.

 Finally, relax and don’t let the idea of a phone interview overwhelm you. Hopefully the employer was once in the same position. It may even help to have a list available of things that want to discuss or questions you would like to ask.  Try to stay confident and be prepared.

If I can keep these tips in mind,  I just might achieve the success.

 

Tie a Knot, and Hang On......

Job searching can make you feel down in the dumps, frustrated, and feeling borderline hopeless that we will never get the interview or another offer!  At times the process can seem daunting, overwhelming, or even frustrating. Today, I want to be the rooting section for everyone and hopefully provide you with a little hope and renewed energy for your search.  I am hoping that this can provide me the exact same energy!


I would like to think that my tips, advice, and resources about job searching is inspiring. I try to formulate the tips and advice I provide based on real problems, downfalls, and issues I have as a job seeker that I struggle with every day.  I realize there isn't any to-the-point, hard advice on careers, job search, etc. but, I will tell you that perseverance can pay off. You CAN do it! If it's not working, change it-and hold on tight, because before you know it, you'll have that new position.

What I am thinking is, we need to be creative in our job search. If what we are currently doing isn't working, then what risk or harm is there in changing it up? Isn't the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result?  I know that I recently changed the adjectives that I was using to describe what I did in my former position.  Realize that all job titles DO NOT transfer across all industries.  We need to generalize what we did in the past to better fit the positions we are striving to get.  How about trying something like sending out information in a handwritten envelope that resembles a thank you letter. Everyone loves a thank you letter, and it guarantees your resume, cover letter, pitch letter, etc. will be read! Unprofessional or genius?  The jury is still out on that theory. 


So the moral of the story is... Hold on, your breakthrough is coming! Be patient and persevere, stay the course; but if the same old song isn't working, then don't be afraid to take a risk and change it up. Learn a new dance, so to speak.  You're doing all the right things, and one day you'll be rewarded with a new promotion, better position, or great new opportunity. You can do it-I believe in you! So put yourself out there, take a few risks, try something new, and above all else, keep your hopes up. 
 

So, as quoted by Franklin D. Roosevelt, "When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on."

Murphy's Law

This morning I was struggling with the thought of getting on my treadmill.  It just did not sound appealing to me at all.  It was about 7:30 a.m., but I did manage to get myself out of bed.  After tying my shoe laces, my cell phone rang. Now remember, it's about 7:50 a.m.  and I am thinking who the heck is calling me so early in the morning.  I looked at the number and the area code was definitely not recognizable.  I answered the phone and was quite surprised when the caller identified herself as someone who I reached out to on LinkedIn for a position I had applied for.  Now the recruiter I connected with was from their corporate office in Cape Canaveral, Florida.  She said she was impressed at my initiative to send her an e-mail about the position.  We spoke for a bit and she said that the director ""owed her one and she was going to hand deliver my resume to him, and forward it to the recruiter for that particular position as well.  We shall see.

Later in the morning ,I received another call from a recruiter for a 5-month contract with Genentech.  Here's where Murphy's Law kicks in.  My cell phone dropped the call, not once, but twice during our conversation.  He wasn't upset, but come on, twice, really.

Then I plugged in my iPhone and I get a message asking if I want to upgrade, I say yes, and it crashes on me.  I was able to restore it, but still ended up losing all my contacts.

Oh well, tomorrow is another day....

Inspiration

A few months ago, I was in San Francisco for a job interview.  After my interview, I met my cousin Roseann, for a cup of coffee.  We chatted about jobs and she wished me well with the interview I just had.  However, she told me a story that I found to be quite inspiring. 

I thought I would share it so that we can all know that there is a reason for everything.

A friend of hers, who I will refer to as Lisa, moved from California to the mid west somewhere.  She couldn't find a job, but needed to work, so she took a job at Starbuck's.  There was a woman who came in to Lisa's Starbuck's regularly.  One day, out of the blue, the women told Lisa that she is exactly the kind of employee she wanted working for her.  She asked Lisa if she would consider a job as her regional sales associate at Bare Escentuals.  Yes, THE BARE ESCENTUALS!!  As I am sure you figured out, Lisa took the job.

She ended up becoming the top regional sales rep.  She was awarded an all expense paid trip to San Francisco and was honored for her success.  I understand she stayed at a five star hotel in San Francisco was given free tickets to see Wicked as well. 

Needless to say, you never know who you might meet and where you might land! 

There truly is a reason for everything.

Pay It Forward

I was sitting here thinking about what it takes to land a job these days and since I never in my life thought I would be one of 15 million Americans seeking employment after all my dedicated years at one single company, the thought occurred to me that perhaps I need to pay it forward.  If I spend 5 minutes a day helping someone else in their job search maybe it will come back to me too.

So I am going to encourage you to do something RIGHT NOW.

Reach out. Ask a friend what one or two things you can do to help with his/her job search.
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Spread the word so we can get thousands across the US to help get friends back to work!

Please help by sharing this on your email lists, Facebook, Twitter etc.

I encourage you to use my comments section to suggest ideas or share what you did today for someone

Here are a few suggestions:

• Forward a job opportunity to someone
• Write a LinkedIn recommendation
• Review a friend’s resume and give objective feedback
• Ask for nothing in return

Pay It Forward All Across the USA! USA USA USA USA USA USA USA USA USA

  

Turn The Tables

I am continuing my blog on the subject of interviews.  I am at the point where I am finally getting more interview opportunities.  Writing advise about interviews and the interview process continues to be great therapy for me.

Sometimes it feels like the interview process is an interrogation or inquisition.  It can be extremely unnerving.  That's because you are doing all the answering and not the one asking questions.

It is possible to turn the tables during the interview.

At some point in the interview you may have a chance to impress the employer on your own terms and see if the job is a good fit for you. You should absolutely take this opportunity to do so. By asking the right questions you can determine if the job is right for you and also show you're engaged and interested in the job.

You can gain insight, put yourself in a good light, and take some control in the interview if you identify with their pain such as:

What is one of the biggest problems the company faces that someone with my background could help alleviate?

If you started in this job tomorrow, what would be your two most pressing priorities?

Find out where the company is going.

Where is this department/company in five years?
What are the long and short term goals of the company/department/work group?

Determine whether you'd fit in.

Ask about the company's culture.

What qualities attracted you to the organization?

Show you're really interested.

Ask if there is any additional information you can provide about your qualifications.

Definitely ask what the next steps in the selection process is.

Ask follow-up questions.

Perhaps ask them to clarify or ask for examples.

By requesting clarification or examples, you show interviewers you care and that you're thinking deeply about the issues they brought up.

What you don't want to ask are questions with obvious answers.

Remember to do your homework before the interview.

It's important to remember the job interview is a two-way street.

Happy Interviewing.....

Phone Interview Success

I find phone interviews to be extremely difficult. You have no face-to-face contact so you can't read their body language. 

Here are some tips on how to handle a phone interview.

• Listen very carefully so you answer the question they are asking.
• Make sure your responses have energy in your tone
• Speak clearly and make sure you don't start to ramble.  If you have ever been deposed you know that you should only answer the question the attorney asks you.  For example if they ask "Did you pick up your child after school last Wednesday"?  Your answer should be yes or no, NOT "No, I had to work that day so my neighbor down the street, who is so helpful, picked her up for me." or Yes, I pick up my little girl every day, because I am a good mom."

Finally, try to relax and be yourself.

I have contemplated taping the phone interview so I can critique it afterword.

To determine how well you did on the phone interview ask yourself:

• How long did it last?  Presume, for the most part, that the longer the better. My very first phone interview lasted 8 minutes.  Needless to say, it didn't go very well.
• How was the interviewers tone when they were responding to your answers?
• Did the interviewer ask you to elaborate on any of your responses?  This could be an indication that they are interested and want to hear more.
• How did they end the phone call?  Did they elaborate on when they would get back to you?

Good luck to all who are anticipating their next phone interview and here's to getting to the next phase in the interview process, The Face To Face...

Tell Me About Yourself...

I recently discovered that when asked the question "Tell Me About Yourself", what the interviewer really wants to hear is what is it that you did in the past that correlates with the position you are interviewing for.  They purposely ask this type of open-ended question to see where you will take it.  Basically, the way you want to answer this question will set the tone for the rest of the interview, regardless if it is a phone interview or a face to face interview.

When the hiring manager asks this question, please do not respond, "So what would you like to know?"

Take the time to read the position description thoroughly and make sure you mention job duties that you have performed in the past that tie to the position you applied for.  If they want someone who has skills at planning events, be sure to mention how you managed your event planning when describing yourself.

Make sure that you include any accomplishments you achieved.  With the event planning example, you might want to say how you managed to put together an event and stay under budget.  Or talk about how you managed to get vendors to supply things for a discount or make a donation...  This shows your negotiating skills.....

I hope this helps.  Have a safe 4th of July.

Interview Questions - One At A Time

I thought I would try posting ideas for answering typical interview questions. 

Today's Interview Question is the dreaded

What Are Your Weaknesses?

I want to bring up the point that it is never a good idea to say that you do not have any weaknesses or that you just can't think of one right now... The reality is, we are not experts in every aspect of our jobs.  You definitely don't want to say that being perfect is a weakness or that you give everything 120% effort.

Now back to a good answer to the weakness question.

Be honest with this question, because it will show.  Make sure that the weakness is relevant.  Find something that you can turn into a positive such as:

" I am basically a shy/quiet person and I get nervous talking to groups of people.  So, I decided to join Toastmasters.  I must say that it has honestly helped me become more comfortable speaking."

Or

"I take a long time proofreading, and while the end result is a high quality of work, it definitely takes up more time."

You Deserve A Break Today.....

In my recent post, my friends commented that I need to take a break, that I am working to hard.  Take advantage of the time off. It will come when the time is right.  Yes, that is all true.  I want to enjoy the time off as much as I can, however, the reality always comes down to finances.  If I didn't have to worry about my children's education and the cost associated with it, this down time would not be such a critical burden.  I also would love a break from this mode I am in.  You know I even have nightmares about jobs, postings, recruiter conversations, etc.  It's scary.  Of course how do you get away without incurring costs associated with travel.  I do have two airline vouchers that I need to use up.  I should put them to good use.  But there are two factors holding me back.  1)  I need my husband to take time off work and 2) what to do with the boys....

I wish that all I had to do was follow the yellow brick road.....  I know that if I could follow the yellow brick road, the great and powerful Oz would be able to help me, I just know it. 

I told you I was dreaming.....

So, perhaps I should listen to Ronald McD and get up and get away......

Let's see where my vouchers can take me.... and please not to the golden arches (LOL).

Motivation

Today, I seem to be lacking the motivation that I need.  Especially to finish my training courses that I started a while back.  I did manage to apply for a few more positions, but right now it just seems like a numbers game.

I have followed some of the guidelines that I learned about in order to get a job.  Networking being one of them.  However, I have not tried cold calling at all.  In my opinion, cold calling reminds me of how people react when they hear from a telemarketer.  The person was interrupted from their work to answer what I call a "sales" call.  I haven't even tried to cold call someone whose name I got as a referral.

I know that my motivation level is not where is should be and that does have a tremendous impact on how we carry out a successful job search.

So the question remains, How Do I Increase My Motivation Level?

One thing I know is that writing does help motivate me as well as reading.  A support network is also important in staying motivated.  My husband does a great job supporting me with motivation, but sometimes that is not enough.  I try to reach out to others, but those that are employed seem to busy to assist me in my job search efforts.

Rejections from employers or failure to find work can have a serious effect on our ability to remain motivated.  Its difficult to remain neutral when you receive an rejection letter, even if it is a "template" letter.

Job searching alone can be a difficult and mind-boggling task. That is why it is important to keep focused on the rewards of a successful career, and not on the challenges that you encounter throughout your job search.

I am thinking about writing down my job search goals each week.  Maybe make a list of people that can help provide encouragement.

Remember that this is your life and nobody can live it. You are in charge of realizing your full potential, but the key is persistence. And persistence is based on determination, which is driven by your motivation.

Just like the Book The Little Engine That Could "I think I can, I think I can, I know I can, I know, I can....."

The Power of Positive Thinking

It is Sunday evening, and it was a very hot day reaching over 100 degrees.  Steve and I started out the day at our local Starbucks sharing some much needed quiet time together.  Steve always manages to see the positive in every situation.  So the fact that he has such a positive outlook inspired me to write about the power of positive thinking.

There are definitely benefits to thinking positively, although its not easy to hold on to that concept.  Creating a positive outlook will help sustain you during trying times in your lives.

Knowing yourself is key to staying positive.  Being a positive thinker can help you maintain harmony. Surround yourself with positive people.  The old idiom of "Misery loves company" is so true.  I have seen miserable people who are miserable makes those around them want to be miserable too.

So, while you are engaged in the job search, relax and take frequent breaks throughout the day.  Read, write and count your blessings. 

If you stay positive your days will continue to get better.

Persistence Is?

Today I started thinking about what does it take in today's world to get across to potential employers that you are the right candidate for the job. I have been told that being in the right place at the right time can largely amount to being the right candidate. Let's face it, who you know is more important that what you know.

I also know that for some employers you may not hear from them for extended periods of time, or not at all in most cases, when you apply for their jobs. For both of these reasons, persistence is key. But it's a fine line. Persistence can easily cross that fine line, into what can be perceived as stalking. And we know that will never help! Where this fine line is depends on the specific circumstances, the employer (or recruiter) you are dealing with, and (frankly) how charming you are. So, with that in mind, consider:

• What do you have to lose? Persistence may keep you under consideration (or even put you back in the running). Rarely will it spoil things when you're in the running. So, persist: what have you got to lose?
• Employers (or recruiters) may appear annoyed by your persistence. And, if you catch them on the phone at an inconvenient time, they may really feel, and sound annoyed. (and rightfully so)   But we all respect candidates who can in fact be respectfully persistent. Perhaps persistence can be construed as a great quality depending the the job.
• So, the question is how should you persist? My best guess would be to mix things up. It does get a bit annoying, or a bit old, to get the same follow up voice mail every week. So, use the phone one week, email the next, maybe send a hand written note "thought you'd find this interesting" and include an excerpt from an article the following week.
• To help minimize the risk of being annoying, be amusing. Make fun of the fact that you are being persistent.
•  Perhaps another approach to "take the edge off" is to ask permission. Each time you leave a voice mail, for example, end it with something like "as you have probably figured out, I'm very interested in this position. I hope it's OK if I check in once a week. If you prefer I wouldn't, just let me know."

 Remember not to cross the line as you don't want to get pushy, and you don't want to seem desperate. Avoid coming across either way, and you may well find persistence turning job opportunities into job offers!

On The Positive Side

I had the dreadful insomnia last night.  As I lay in bed, staring at the ceiling, I got to thinking about the my current status of "actively seeking career opportunities, henceforth will be referred to as ASCO. I knew that if I thought hard enough that I could come up with a few positives to my ASCO status. 

Here is what I concluded:

In September 2009, I joined Weight Watchers. Six weeks later, I entered the status of ASCO.  This gave me the perfect opportunity to start an exercise routine.  I managed to lose 20 pounds.  Now that is positive!  I have had the opportunity to meet many people from different walks of life that I would not have otherwise had the pleasure of meeting. That makes positive number 2.  I am in the process of learning new software that I might not have had the time to learn. (MS Project, Visio, QuarkXpress, Publisher) to name a few.  That's number 3.  I have learned about more companies than I can even begin to count.  I started a blog.  I am using LinkedIn to network.  I don't have to commute.

So if I had to make a positive out of a situation I don't wish upon anyone, I have found more than one.

Now that is a great way to start of a weekend !.

The Networking Thing

Sometimes we just want to stray away from what we are supposed to do.  I was wondering if there is a science to "Networking"?

I supposed understanding the how and why would be an important step the the employed population never even consider. Because really having a strong network is like having a super power. You're able to do things beyond that of a normal person while others look on and wonder how you made it happen.

I am beginning to believe that networking is a prescription for success. Once you start implementing some networking  strategies you’ll begin to notice the difference in your relationships, not just in gaining employment, but outside of the business world as well.  In fact, those relationships will begin to join, and slowly become one and the same thing. Soon you won’t be able to tell the difference between who you work with and who you are friends with, and the best part is, you won’t have to. Your friends will become your colleagues, and your colleagues your friends (I think?)

So invest yourself in making friends from all walks of life, professions, lifestyles, genders, races and religions economic classes and geographic regions. With a large enough network you should never have to worry about making a major life change.

I like the concept.  Let's put it to work..... I challenge all of you to add new connections to your Linked In profile by thinking outside of the box.  Get going, and let me know how it goes.  Oh yeah, I guess I should "get going" too!

Just Another Day

Today turned out to be nothing other than just another day.  A very typical Wednesday for me.  I seemed to have spent more time in the kitchen today than usual.  This morning I made homemade strawberry tarts that I shared with my Job Search Work Team members. 

When I arrived home, I was once again, in the kitchen.  This time, assisting Melissa in making pastizzi's for her Speech class.  The topic she had to speak on for 5 minutes was "How to Make...." and as I explained yesterday, she wanted to make a traditional Maltese dish.  She chose an appetizer called pastizzi.   So there we were, rolling the dough, filling it with the ricotta filling and baking them.  We made 20.  All for her classmates to taste at tomorrows class.

On the subject of job search.  Well, there hasn't been much out there for me to post for.  I am trying to focus on Linked In and networking more.  So I don't really have anything new to report.

Has anyone heard about IHire Secretarial.  It's a job search site you have to pay for.  Any thoughts?

Uneventful, but then again.....

I started my day on the treadmill.  But I must admit, after walking 10 miles on Sunday at the US Open, I only ran 1.25 miles on the treadmill.  It feels like today was basically uneventful. 

However, I did have lunch with two former colleagues.  It was fun catching up with them and hearing their woes of how busy they are at work. (LOL). 

Later this afternoon, I received a call from a recruiter for an 18-month contract that I will be presented for.  Wish me luck.

I also called my former boss to help me with a quick SQL lesson.  Jeff is great and I will forever be thankful.

Then to top off the evening a group memeber from LinkedIn gave me some tips on my blog layout. 

Thank you!

As I was getting ready to finish my blog, my daughter told me she needs to make a presention for her speech class on how to make something.  Guess what she wants to present? Making Pastizzi's.  And guess who is going to help her?

I am off to Safeway.

Summer Solstice is here

Today marks the celebration of  summer solstice.  It is the longest day of the year.  The weather today was definitely HOT.  I only went out for a bit to Trader Joe's.  I am still without a car.  Melissa has been using my car for the past seven days and her car is still not fixed.  It's weird not having the use of my car at my free will.  It feels as if I am stranded at home, but sometimes I don't even leave the house all day or feel the need to even drive anywhere.

I did hit the job boards again today.  Not much out there really.  I have been contemplating what to do about this dilemma of having done project work for the past seven years.  It has put a major setback in my finding gainful employment.  I don't qualify for most project coordinator positions that become available. 

I decided to start applying for administrative assistant and executive assistant positions.  Most of my career was spent in an admin role anyway.  However, not having been in that role for the past seven years, for some reason makes me no longer qualified to potential employers.  In retrospect, taking a promotion has proven to be a detriment for me.

I have to find a way to position myself better, because, I am definitely qualified for admin roles.  My skills can be utilized in any corporate industry.

Well, if anything, I love Summer and glad it has arrived.

No Place Like Home...

First of all, I have to say I am WIPED OUT!.  Being able to be a part of the U.S. Open was a once in a lifetime experience for me.  I put in about 10 miles walking that course with my husband.  The weather was cold, windy, and warm.  Did I mention it was cold, windy and warm?

The dinner we hosted at the Hog's Breath for 20 people went quite well.  Its always interesting to be a part of a dinner when you don't know any of the people.  They were definitely a cast of characters.

It was great to get away, but just like Dorothy said, there's no place like home.  In case you haven't noticed, my continued reference to the Wizard of Oz.... It happens to be my all time favorite classic movie.

Tonight I am just lounging and regrouping so I can start my job search again tomorrow morning.

Good night.

Happy Trails...

Continuing on the subject of my Job Search Work Team, I have been going to these weekly meetings for the past twelve weeks.  Since that time, I am happy to say that six people have landed a job.  So, I would like to

C-O-N-G-R-A-T-U-L-A-T-E

Sara, who landed at Levi, Felipe, who is moving to Boston, Paola, who landed at PG&E, Jack at GAP, and Kristie at Clorox.  Linda landed a 6-month contract job at AAA.

Happy Trails to all of you, until we meet again.....

Those of us that are continuing our job seach, the landing of those I mentioned above gives us hope.  It also gives us connections with more "employed" folks, who, I am sure, would love to help the rest of us out.

Only those that have experienced the economic crisis the way we have truly understand how important it is to help someone who is searching for a job.

Off the job search subject now --  I am looking forward to the US Open and being there to actually witness the event.  My husband and I will be down in Carmel and Pebble Beach this weekend.  It will be a nice break from my laptop and job postings.  Tomorrow, I will do a little pampering, i.e. shopping and a pedicure.....

A funny thing happened.....or not!

Wednesdays are my "accountability" days.  Since I belong to a Job Search Work Team, each Wednesday we report our numbers to the team.  How many jobs we posted, how many interviews, referrals, job offers, hours networking, etc.  Then we make a list of agenda items to discuss. 

Today the first agenda item, brought up by little ole me, was how to avoid job search depression and feeling desperate.  Turns out Charlene was feeling the same way, but provided the group with a great list of things to do.  We all received a copy and one item on the list was to do something we are a little uncomfortable doing. 

So, I decided that I would try that immediately after the meeting.  I posted for a Project Coordinator position at a company that happens to have an office in the exact same building and same floor where our meetings are held.  Now, out of my comfort zone, I walked into their office and asked the receptionist if she wouldn't mind passing my resume on to the hiring manager.  She said she would be glad to send it via company mail.  Wow, that was so much easier than I expected to be.

As soon as I arrived home, I knew I was going to blog about the list that Charlene provided to the team.

I open my portfolio and search through all my papers, and, to my wondering eyes, the document is missing in action.  Now where did it go?  I gotta tell you the thought occurred to me, did it get attached to my resume that I provided to the receptionist?  I am praying to God that it did not, and perhaps I just left it on the conference room table.  Someone please tell me that is what happened.  Can you imagine getting that list of how to avoid job search depression with your resume!!!!!  I wonder if I am going to even sleep tonight, wondering if that is what I did.  I don't think I will ever find out either.

I'm melting, Oh What a world, what a world! (thank you Wicked With of the West)

What more can I say?  I think its best to leave on that note....

Elevator Speech

This morning I got to thinking about my elevator speech.  I admit that I am extremely uncomfortable with the "speech".  When I am asked, "What do/did you do?  My response is usually "Oh I did project coordinator work."  I never elaborate.  Assuming the person asking the question, doesn't really care.  Perhaps I believe that it is just a perfunctory question.  I really want to be able to let my speech roll off my tongue.  Let's try on some for size.

"I have experience in assisting projects over one million dollars, from concept to completion.  Including database analysis, database management and overall administrative functions."

blach!  It just doesn't come natural to me.  I have a hard time selling what I do even to myself.  As if what I do/did doesn't even matter.

Someone please help me here.   I am drowning. 

"I am a experienced project assistant with a background in database management, analysis and highly competent administrative skills."

I don't like that either.  How can I get what I do across to others in a mater of fact way, without either sounding rehearsed or as if what I do doesn't matter?

Amazon.com suggests Give Your Elevator Speech a Lift!  Perhaps I should give it a try? 

Well enough said.  Until tomorrow......

Up from here

Ah, the drudgery of Mondays.  Not that any particular day of the week is any different for me. (smile).  Back to my daily routine,  treadmill comes first.  While I an on the treadmill, something terrible happens to me.  I start thinking, and thinking, and thinking.  This morning, I thought that it felt llike I was at the bottom.  I was also going to be stranded for the whole morning since Melissa's car broke down and she needs my car to get to a summer Speech class she is taking that starts today.  Of course, I am the one who has to postpone my plans.  Oh the joys of motherhood!

Since I felt like I was at the bottom,  and I was in my "thinking" mode, and I felt that it was about as bad as it could be, I knew it could only go up from here.

Truly, nothing come easily.  If it did, then it wouldn't feel like it was worth it. So, I am not going to let this opportunity that I have been faced with get me down.

I am up about the sun shining through the shades in my room.  There is a nice cool breeze from the open window.  And I am looking forward to the US Open this weekend.  Steve and I are headed to Monterey to watch the US Open and host a dinner for some of his clients.

So, it can't be said enough that it can only go up from here.

I haven't blogged in the last few days, for lack of better words, I seem to have writers block.  Today is Saturday and, while it was a hot day, the wind was having it's way for most of the day. 

I know its the "weekend", but, like I said previously, it is difficult for me not to search for job opportunities.  I did manage to find a few that I applied for today.  Union Bank was one of the companies I applied to.  I continue to remain optimistic.  LinkedIn has been a great resource, for discussions and such.

It is always nice to take a break and my husband Steve and I decided to go out to lunch at the Cheesecake Factory and then a little shopping at Macys.  It turned out to be a wonderful day.  I always enjoy spending time with Steve.

Now it's time to sit back, relax and watch a movie. 

It's Complicated

is in the queue.

Sahha all!  ("Sahha" is Maltese for goodbye)

Today is my busiest day of the week.  I went to my Job Search Work Team meeting, and it feels like others who haven't been in the group as long as I have are getting more interview opportunities than I am.  The only positive I can think of, is when one of them lands, they may be able to assist me in the networking arena.  I left the meeting early in order to take a call from a staffing agency.  There is a job that she would like to present me to.  I had to take several assessment tests.  Word, Excel, Outlook, Powerpoint, grammar and spelling.  Yikes.  I faired rather well for most of them, but was disappointed to find out how much I didn't know about Outlook.  I am so tired this evening.  But I will end it with food for thought.  "Go the extra mile, you will find the road isn't crowded."

Glimmer of hope

Apparently, the unemployment rate is down and hiring is up.  That sounds great on paper.  Now, Show Me The Money!  All kidding aside, there is a glimmer of hope for those of us still seeking work.

 I had a great lunch meeting with a former classmate today.  It's always nice to reconnect with the past and bridge our current lives.  I am hoping some of my networking came out in our meeting today.  She offered some great insight for my job search. 

More good news -- a phone meeting with another staffing firm tomorrow afternoon.  I continue to remain optimistic and stay focused.

So I am going to suggest reading  The Power of Positive Thinking and the Amazing Results of Positive Thinking Collection to encourage you to think happy thoughts because that is what Wendy said in the movie "Peter Pan".

I Have What You Need

As I continue chronicling my job search, I try to find ways that will make a prospective employer know that "I have what they need".  Today I was at a professional staffing agency to discuss any potential job opportunities they might have for me.  She asked me several questions and it occurred to me that I already had everything she was looking for in my Marketing Plan.  I developed a marketing plan to "market" myself.  This plan was a tool I thought I would use when networking with people.  The recruiter was quite impressed that I had a "Plan".  It contained information about my Professional Objective, Positioning Statement, Preferred Functions, a table with a list of my competencies by category, my target market, my preferred organizational culture and a table with business sectors that I am interested in.  Needless to say, she was impressed with my plan.
Kudos to me for that one....

I truly believe that my advanced computer software knowledge will definitely benefit any organization.  When I read a job description that requires a skill I am not familiar with.  I "Google" it and then I will download free trial versions so I can learn a new skill or I will take a course.  Right now I am taking Visio and MS Project on-line via SkillSoft.  To me this shows initiative.  Don 't you think?

I am also fortunate enough to be technologically savvy.  I can fix minor computer issues.

So if you haven't figured it out yet, "I have what you need"!

Until tomorrow.....

After All....

Today has not been one of my better days.  I started out the day by waking up with a headache.  That should have been my first sign.  I took the boys to school.  Since I was working on my headache, I decided that getting on the treadmill was just not going to happen.  So, I decided I would make a cake for Melissa's birthday.  But, unfortunately, I had to run to the store to get a few thing so I could bake the cake.  I quickly went to Lucky hoping I could avoid seeing anyone I knew, since I was still sporting my sweats and not a stitch of make-up.  But, of course Lillian was working this morning and so, reason number two for the way my day was headed.  I baked the cake then headed out to my Weight Watchers meeting.  The scale was not my friend today.  Reason number three - 1.8 lb gain.  Jeez.  I guess that's what I get for not tracking.  As soon as I got home, my cell phone rang, and it was a potential employer, with bad news,  I didn't get the job.  That makes reason number four.  After plugging away at the computer seaching for employment, my husband calls me to tell me he got a speeding ticket on his way home from his business trip.  I need this day to make a turn for the better.  We are all going out to Chevy's for Melissa's birthday (sorry Weight Watcher's).  And of course, we can't forget my cake that will be waiting for us when we get back from Chevy's.  After all, "Tomorrow is Another Day..... (Thank you Scarlett)....

Some things in Life are Free...

Today the sun can't make up it's mind to stay or not to stay. I say stay so I can go outdoors for a change.

After hearing a recruiter tell me that my resume was impressive except I don't have knowledge in MS Project, I decided to take a course. I have been working on it all morning and decided I need to take a break. So.... I quickly grabbed a book, and my sunglasses and went outside to the chaise.....The birds were singing to me. As a matter of fact, one bird in particular, was relentless with its singing. I am glad somethings in life are free.

It certainly got my mind off of MS Project, that's for sure. My where does the time go? Already time to pick up the boys....Until tomorrow....

Too Much To Do, Yet So Little Time...

Wednesdays tend to be a busy day for me. Funny, nine months ago I thought, "What am I going to do with all this unwanted free time now that I am unemployed". Yes, sometimes I get bored, but mostly, I seem to fill up my days with lots of different activities.

On Wednesdays I attend a Job Search Work Team meeting from 1:30 to 3:30. This allows me to work and socialize with other job seekers. I enjoy my group and learn a lot each time I go.

This morning, I received a phone call from a recruiter for a position I applied to. He said my resume was impressive, but that his client wanted someone who has MS Project experience. Alas, I never learned how to use that tool. I told him I was a quick learner and would be willing to learn it on my own. Hmmm. He said he was going to discuss it with his client and get back to me. We shall see.

The next book on my list to read is: Sell Yourself in Any Interview : Use Proven Sales Techniques to Land Your Dream Job : Use Proven Sales Techniques to Land Your Dream Job
Perhaps I shoiuld read this one right away?

I think I need to figure out a better way of selling my skills or those I have not quite finessed yet. If anyone has any suggestions, please please let me in on your secrets.

Happy Wednesday to all.

Never Give Up

This morning, while I was on the treadmill, I was thinking about what I was going to write on my blog today. I needed a lift from the drudgery of job searching. I enjoy reading. For me its a great way to relax. Sometimes I enjoy a great novel, but lately I have been looking for inspiration. One of the books that I plan to read that is on my wishlist at Amazon.com is Never Give Up!: Relentless Determination to Overcome Life's Challanges
I am hoping for some daily inspirations to get me through to the next step towards landing a job. Today Melissa and I are going to KellyAnn's Day Spa
So, for today, I hope I inspire you to spend time with a loved one, and "Never Give Up"!

Same $@#^, Different Day

Monday, Monday. In addition to it being Monday, it happens to be a holiday, Memorial Day to be exact. We need to take a moment to honor those who have served our country and to those who continue to serve our country. Like I mentioned before, every day is a weekend or holiday for the unemployed. I guess.

Does that mean we don't work hard? Heck no. I never worked harder. Searching for a job is tough work, and getting an employer to recognize your skills, abilities, and eagerness is difficult. Today the job boards seem to be singing to me... It's the same old song...Actually, blogging about job search has been sort of theraputic for me.

Speaking of theraputic,

This week, I am continuing my training for the 5K that is happening on June 6. It also happens to be my daughter Melissa's birthday week. She will be 19 on June 3. Tomorrow we will have some "bonding" time as we are going to have an afternoon at the spa. I am probably looking forward to it more than she is, but what can I say.

On that note, until tomorrow!

Saturday - Is it just another day?

As I chronicle my daily encounters surfing the web for a job, I realized that today is Saturday. For those that are gainfully employed, Saturday marks a day of rest and a day the typical 9 to 5'ers look forward to.

Charlene, from my Job Search work team, mentioned that a recruiter who was letting her know that she was being passed on for a job ended the e-mail with "Have a great Memorial Day Weekend". Charlene was quick to point out that "everyday is a weekend for us jobseekers. I usually try to take a break from job search engines on the weekends, but somehow feel compelled to look, just in case I might miss the opportunity of a lifetime. With that being said, I happened to notice that the unusual nasty weather we have been having has slipped away and the sun is shining and not a breeze is to be found. I plan on making lunch for my husband and then I am going to grab the lastest book I am reading and lay on the chaise out in the backyard, and R-E-L-A-X! Until tomorrow....

Being Entertained

I was sitting in front of my laptop, looking out my window and the skies are definitely bluer than yesterday, but still not quite what I would want for the last week of May. I was thinking, (I know what you are saying right now as you read this ("Marlene is thinking, watch out everyone")! But seriously, I was thinking that everyone likes to be entertained. We all want to hear or see something fun or funny. So much of business is taken way to seriously. So I thought, perhaps my cover letter should be more entertaining. So I set off to work on that.

Ever heard of writers block. Everytime I go to write a cover letter, my mind goes blank. I managed to add a few quips to my cover letter. The next job I apply to I am going to use this new cover letter. One never knows. Would you be more inclined to want to speak to me if I wrote, "Please give me a call so we can discuss my skills in more detail." or if I wrote, "Call today, don't delay!" Anyway, I came across this video and it's hilarous. It's entitled Job Interview - Pepsi Max. What a funny way to be the only one left to interview. Enjoy!

Job Post Blasting

Today the weather here in Concord California continues to be nasty. I don't like to go out in the rain. So I haven't left my laptop since 8:30 this morning. I blasted the internet with job postings today. I really should keep better track of all the companies and positions I have applied to. I believe there are many excellent companies out there. My skills are definitely transferrable in ANY industry. So with that in mind, I applied at some great organizations such as Clorox, Dr Pepper Snapple, Safeway, Frito-Lay, wait a second, I see a trend here, do you see it too. Yes, food, except Clorox of course (LOL). But I didn't stop there. I applied at PG&E and Kaiser too. Can't forget about SAMM, and Cisco. There was also KPMG, AAA, Bank of the West, Dolby. WOW, slow down girl. I can't. I want to be able to contribute to society, be gainfully employed and make the unemployment stats go down.

Tools of the Trade

Today, after attending my weekly Job Search Work Team meeting, it occurred to me that my "Tools of the Trade" switched gears. My customer service driven self, where I ensure I completed my daily tasks with efficiency, looked for ways to improve work processes and endeveared to always do my best, was slipping by the wayside. I had to anlayse what it is that I now do everyday. My new Tools of the Trade are analyzing job postings, reading reviews of potential employers, ensuring that I am not being scammed (believe me there is way to much scamming going on out there), and finding ways to keep my skills sharp.

Every morining when I wake up, I vehemently believe that today is the day an employer is going to discover me! How, though, can I make that happen? What can I do to influence these potential employers that I am the one they want to hire? How can I make a change to the current way people apply for positions? What can I do to make a difference? I believe in the concept of the power of many. I can't do this alone. I nead a team to help make a difference. I am sure we can all come up with an improvement from the current process. Let's make that differnce together.

What Do People Blog About?

Okay, so I am unemployed and have been since the end of 2009. Today, the weather here in Concord California is downright nasty. So, I did my routine stuff of the day. Woke up at 7:30 a.m. got on the treadmill for 30 minutes, showered, etc, You get the picture. Anyway, I checked the job boards, and alas, now I am bored... So, I get on Swagbucks.com and end up creating this blog. I have been thinking about starting a blog for people who have found themselves unemployed, over age 50 and finding it extremely difficult to find a job. Any thoughts out there on this subject>>>